Friday, August 03, 2007

you're beautiful... its true.


Hanging out. Down the street.
The same old thing, we did last week!
Not a thing to do, but talk to you!
We're all alright..We're all alright!

- That 70's song


they say relationships are difficult. i, sometimes agree and sometimes i really dont. i often think that we get many a signs and we actualy have all the "clues" and we have all the pieces we need to make the puzzle and therefore see the clearer picture.


but often we dont see it coz we dont want to.


a friend of mine recently was very mistreated by someone she used to "see", and as much as i sympathize with her , i couldnt understand why after being rebuffed so many times in a very cold way she still went through round after round of humiliation. and even after i gave her the sympathy talk, the no nonsense talk, the angry talk she did the same thing over again and faced more humiliation again. the more it happened, the more her confidence level went down. and seriously if someone doesnt treat you nicely, they really are not worth even thinking about.


i guess there is only so much you can say or do for someone, after that its upto them. and perhaps its the bitter truth but some pple prefer to realize it the hard way.


3 comments:

Alok 8:24 AM  

I dont agrre that some people like it the hard way, its just their insecurity which makes them face the humilation. I cant comment on ur frnd but some people I have seen are too weak I guess..

life of pi 9:03 AM  

alok: i know. but then you are the only one who can cure your own "weakness". you choose whether to stay sad or you choose whether to be happier.

Ashraf's Pen 11:12 AM  

I THINK ITS A PARADOX AS TO HOW SO MANY GREAT WOMEN END UP WITH THE WORST OF WOMEN.

I THINK IT HAS SOMETHING 2 DO WITH INSECURITY OR THE INABILITY TO SEE THE SUN.

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